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Where we begin!

How do I even begin!? 
I am Sam. A busy Mum of two girls. We have Leigha who is 6yrs old and Mollie who is currently 10mths old. Myself and my fiancé of nearly 6yrs lead a busy life. Matt (my fiancé) works as a kitchen manager and works a lot of hours, leaving me to do most of the children's care by myself. When he's home he's fabulous but generally speaking I've created a routine to suit me and he just blends in and helps when he's here. 

A bit of backstory.

My girls have different dads. My ex of 5yrs ended our relationship only to find out 6wks later that I'm expecting. Talk about timing. He's still in her life but fast forward til Leigha being 7mths (Feb 2011) old I met the most amazing man who I'm now proud to call my fiancé. We got together (4th march 2011)  and him being the young age of 19 (me being 21), decided to take me and Leigha on as a pre-started family, falling in love with us both. Him and Leigha have been close ever since. So much respect for him. He provides for us and both our girls are incredibly lucky. 

In August 2011, I find out I'm pregnant, we are overjoyed. It wasn't planned but it also wasn't prevented. But bad news hit us hard at our 12wk scan when the baby had no heartbeat and was measuring around 9wks. We were devastated. All i remember is Matt crying. A couple of weeks later the hospital arranged a funeral for our baby after I managed to deliver at home an intact baby. So tiny and I ended up in hospital with the blood loss. The funeral was and still is the only funeral Matt has ever attended. That of his own baby. I'll never forget his face.

For years we tried for another baby. Just as we started to loose help we were given our dream come true. In August 2016 we got a positive test. After a rocky pregnancy and coping with Gestatuonal diabetes resulting in baby being very big and being induced, Our little Mollie was delivered 3wks early weighing at 9lb 5oz. 

Mollie is now 10mths old and Leigha is the best and proudest big sister. We have recently moved into our forever home so I'm glad to start our blog here. Thanks for reading. There will be more!!x

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